You have read the books. You talked with people about it. You understand where the pattern comes from and you still said yes when you meant no last week. That is not a knowledge problem. That is a behaviour problem.

Every woman who folds has a tell — the exact sentence she says in the half-second before her standard collapses. Four questions. Yours is in there.

Over 230 women have taken this quiz. The most common feedback: they had felt the tell firing for years. They just did not have a name for it until now.